Manifesting Your Worst Fears

Question from a reader:

“I have some fears that I can’t seem to get out of my mind, fears of losing my partner to a car accident, or of him getting hit on his bicycle, among a myriad of other fears surrounding my family. I often try to pray to archangel Michael right after I imagine one of these accidents, but I’m afraid that my vivid visions will attract the experience into my reality. Am I attracting these experiences? Do you have any advice on how to stop having these vivid, graphic fears?”

Firstly, let me just say that I do not believe that you have the ability to manifest the death of another person, any more than you have the ability to manifest a unicorn in your back yard, so I think you’re safe. But let’s talk about manifestation for a little bit and use this example as a thought exercise anyhow.

There are three basic principles to manifestation–thought, word and deed. But not just any thought, the “sponsoring thought” also known as belief.

Read in-depth about the mechanics of the Law of Attraction.

So the question is, do you believe these things are going to happen? Or are they simply random things that you envision and then quickly forget? 

Simply thinking about a thing will not manifest it. Dwelling on it is another story, because dwelling involves repetitive thoughts and repetitive thoughts create beliefs.

When you find these things coming up in your mind, don’t try to force them out, but don’t attach to them, either. Just let them float through and continue on. It’s when you attach to a thought, dwell on a thought, constantly worry about a thought, and fear a thought that you begin to believe a thought. And when you believe something, you take actions based on those beliefs, and that’s when you manifest it. Simply entertaining something as an idea will not make it happen. Simply being afraid of something will not make it happen.

Learn the difference between fear and danger.

While driving down the road, I sometimes wonder what would happen if I suddenly veered left–into a ditch, an oncoming car, a cow (that was a distinct possibility where I grew up. lol And traffic was backed up one day because someone DID plow into an errant cow on the highway…) but it’s never happened.

Also, your husband has his own creative power over his life, the same as you do. You are co-creating together. The only way you could have power over his life is if he gives it to you (through belief).

A more interesting question to ask yourself would be where these are coming from. Perhaps a past life regression is in order?



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