I am SO behind on my question submissions. This time last year I was writing five blog posts a week and right now I’m lucky if I can get one. Of course, I’ve had a lot of things going on in my personal life that have kept me distracted – deaths in the family, illness, and now I’m a couple of weeks behind with work. Sometimes life just gets in the way.

Question from a reader:

“I know of three different situations where someone was visited from a loved one. In their visit, the spirit seemed mad. I always thought people were more content and happy and wanted you to know they were alright after passing on.

Duality only exists here in this dimension where the physical realm is, and it is illusory. Duality exists because we create it through our ignorance of our true state, which is love. When we lack the understanding that love is all there is, we replace love with fear. Anger and all other negative emotions are a product of fear.

It is my understanding that once an entity leaves the dualistic plane, they are no longer subject to duality. They become a part of a “higher” dimension (I say higher, but it’s more accurately an encompassing dimension), which is of a higher vibration and cannot carry lower level fear-based energy with them.

One possibility is that the loved ones in question had not crossed over and where still in the dualistic plane because they had unresolved issues. Another possibility is that the experiences were actually a projection of the person who experienced them, were interpreted based on that person’s fears, or otherwise the person was lacking some understanding about the experience.


I’ve had interactions with spirits who haven’t yet crossed over and they can be in a state of distress or confusion for a number of reasons and it doesn’t have to occur immediately after they’ve died.

A spirit once came to me while I  was spending the night away from home and told me that he didn’t want to be dead. I felt that he was concerned about the welfare of the family that he had left behind and that’s why he wasn’t crossing over. I have no idea when he passed – it could have been recent or it could have been 30 years ago.

I explained to him that they would be ok, sent him love and asked my team to work with his and escort him to where he needed to be.

We also have to understand that we, ourselves, have a limited perspective and may never know the full context of the story. How much do we hide from our own friends and family members? Sometimes the emotions that we hide are very big, and we might take them to our grave. And while others will speak about us from their perspective and perception of who we were, they will only know what we showed them, not what really was – unless, of course, we were being authentic in that life.






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If you have a general question about spirituality, metaphysics, personal development or how those concepts apply to a specific experience or situation and you'd like me to address in a blog post, you can submit it here. When submitting your question, please be as specific as possible. If your question is in reference to a specific blog post, please include the link. 

This does not apply to questions that you would ask during a psychic reading. Please book a reading with a reputable intuitive - you can find my list of recommended people here. I also offer single card tarot readings [GET DETAILS].



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